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Published on January 1, 2024
In a world that often glorifies the hustle and values professional success over personal fulfillment, finding time for your passions can be an uphill battle. For many, the constant demands of a high-stress job can overshadow personal interests and hobbies. In this blog post, I’ll share my personal journey of transitioning from a self-proclaimed workaholic to someone who prioritizes personal happiness through the pursuit of a beloved hobby – pole dancing (and I occasionally take a break from that to pen something).
Once upon a time, I was deeply immersed in the teaching world and events world, two industries that demand a lot of attention, and proudly wore the badge of a workaholic. I dedicated all my time and energy to climbing the professional ladder, striving to be the best at what I did. However, amidst the hustle and bustle I stumbled upon something that would change my life – pole dancing.
Pole dancing, often misunderstood and underestimated, became my sanctuary. The fusion of strength, grace, and artistic expression captivated me, and I found myself yearning for more time to indulge in this newfound passion. The only problem? Balancing the demanding job that paid the bills with the desire to explore my own interests proved to be an immense challenge.
The dichotomy between the demanding work schedule and the longing to pursue personal passions is a struggle many can relate to, especially those engaged in goal-oriented hobbies like pole dancing. The irony lies in the fact that hobbies, which inherently involve setting and achieving personal goals, attract individuals who are driven and ambitious – the same traits often sought after in the professional realm.
Through my journey, I’ve come to realize the importance of focusing on oneself and individual goals. While work is undoubtedly crucial for financial stability, true happiness lies in finding a balance between professional success and personal fulfillment. It’s essential to break free from societal expectations and prioritize what brings joy and satisfaction.
The reality of our world is that individuals with more luxurious jobs often have the privilege of free time to pursue their dreams and passions. On the flip side, those struggling with less favorable job conditions (long commits, long hours, odd hours, etc.) find themselves caught in a perpetual cycle of making ends meet, leaving little room for personal growth and exploration.
I count myself lucky to have found a way to make it work. By reevaluating my priorities and making conscious decisions to allocate time for my passion, I’ve witnessed a remarkable transformation. The compliments I receive on my growth and accomplishments in pole dancing only reinforce the belief that dedicating time to personal goals is as important, if not more so, than excelling in a demanding job.
In the pursuit of personal happiness, it’s crucial to strike a balance between professional commitments and personal passions. As a pole dancer who once grappled with time constraints and stress, I urge others to prioritize their own goals and well-being. Remember, work is a means to an end, but personal fulfillment is the true measure of a rich and rewarding life. Embrace your passions, celebrate your growth, and savor the joy that comes with dedicating time to yourself.
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